• Home
  • About
    • About
    • Terms and Conditions + Privacy Policy
  • Press
  • Work With Us
    • Creatives + Brands
    • Interior Design + Decorating
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact

STAY AWHILE

  • Home
  • About
    • About
    • Terms and Conditions + Privacy Policy
  • Press
  • Work With Us
    • Creatives + Brands
    • Interior Design + Decorating
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact

Follow A Hosting Home

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube

A Hosting Home

Styling and Inspiration + Handcrafted Designs

Fall, Hosting, Winter

How-To Set Your Table Like A Professional This Holiday Season

How-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season // A Hosting Home Blog

This post has been updated and was originally published in December of 2017.

How-To Set Your Table Like A Professional This Holiday Season

Every friend group has a Monica Geller. You know the one – the hostess with the most-est among you and your girl friends. I know this because I am that friend of my friend group. I always joke that Monica Geller (mixed with Joanna Gaines!) is my spirit animal. My heart for hosting has been beating since I was a little girl, and my love for holidays run deep.

Always The Hostess Monica Geller Meme GIF // How-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday SeasonUncontrollable Need To Please People Monica Geller Meme GIF // How-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season

 

But joking aside, I really do love hosting. Not only do I love it, but I also find it really important. We’re even called to hospitality in the bible. I feel like it is one of the gifts that God gave me. So, to me, opening my home to love on others and encourage them is kingdom work. God gave me this home. Why not use it to reach others, right?

“Each of you should use whatever gifts you have received to serve others as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” – 1 Peter 4:10

My heart for hosting was actually the heart behind launching my blog and business. This mission of mine is really to help all of my friends (you!) be intentional on creating spaces to gather and celebrating life’s precious moments. Whether that be something big like an upcoming wedding, a party, or even something as simple as having loved ones in your home, it’s about making memories that last a lifetime. And if there’s any time of the year where you’re most likely to gather and make memories with your loved ones, it’s the holidays.

Overcoming Holiday Hosting Pressure

In all seriousness, when it comes to hosting your loved ones for the holidays, there’s a lot of pressure for perfection put on people. It’s honestly not talked about enough how we’re trained by social media to ‘Go Big or Go Home.’ However, it’s not about perfection. It’s not about being the Pinterest perfect hostess with the perfect tablescape and hot cocoa bar. In the end, it’s about gathering together, loving on one another, and making memories.

Making an impression on your guests is a lot more simple than you think. (It just takes a little more love!) I’m a firm believer that it’s the little things that you can do to step up your holiday hosting game that make all the difference. That’s why my philosophy is and always will be to live simply, love generously, and host with heart.

How-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season // A Hosting Home BlogHow-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season // A Hosting Home Blog

There’s a reason why I put a little more attention and love into the food and the table each time I host people in my home. There’s just something about the level of conversation that happens and the memories made over a meal or cup of coffee that I love so much. Throughout my entire life, some of my favorite memories were made sitting around a table.

How-To Set Your Table Like A Pro

Setting your table is probably one of the most simple steps you can take to leave a lasting impression on your guests. It sets the tone for the meal and it’s the first thing they’ll notice when they walk in your dining room. Not to mention, you can do it with what you already have in your home! So, whether this is your first year hosting the holidays or you’re sticking to just a dinner party with the girls, you’ll be a tablescape pro by the end of this blog post!

How To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season PIN / A Hosting Home Blog

Basic / Casual Setting

When it comes to a casual, basic place setting, it’s all about the basics. All you need is a dinner plate (center), a dinner fork (left), a dinner knife (right, with the blade facing the plate), a spoon (right), a beverage glass (top right), and a napkin. With this type of setting, don’t feel like you have to put out extra utensils if they aren’t needed. Save yourself the dishes and spend more time socializing after dinner with your guests.

Informal Setting

Take your basic tablesetting to a slightly more elegant level while keeping it light and informal with the addition of just a few utensils.

  • Salad Fork –  far left
  • Soup Spoon – far right
  • Wine Glass – top right, next to water/beverage glass

Formal Setting

Taking your tablesetting to the most elegant level is actually a lot more simple than you’d think. If you think it’s intimidating to set a formal table, remember that it just takes the addition of utensils and a few more dishes. Make sure to pin the image below for a quick reference to save you time later!

  • Salad Plate – on top of the dinner plate
  • White Wine Glass – top right, next to each beverage/water glass
  • Red Wine Glass – top right, next to the white wine glass
  • Bread Plate + Bread Knife – top left
  • Dessert Fork – top center, facing right
  • Dessert Spoon – top center, facing left
  • Charger Plate – beneath dinner plate
  • Place Card – top center
  • Cup and Saucer – far right

One thing I love to include in any tablesetting, regardless of how formal or informal, is a charger plate beneath the dinner plate. While charger plates are typically reserved for more elegant and formal settings, I love how their addition brings each setting to life and gives them a simple yet beautiful touch that completes the table. Another thing I love to do is to play with the napkin fold. Whether you lay it elegantly off the table, dress it up with a napkin ring, or experiment with a fancy fold, get creative!

How-To Set Your Table Like a Professional This Holiday Season // A Hosting Home Blog

Remember: It’s Your Table

Before you get stressed out on the technicality of setting the perfect table, it’s important to remember that there are literally more ways to set a table than you can count. Because, while everyone may try to follow the basic guidelines, everyone does it a tad differently. You don’t have to stick strictly to basic, informal, or formal settings. Like the picture above, I often set mine as some version in between the three! Ultimately, set your table to meet the needs of the meal you’re sharing.

Whether you’re setting your table casual or formal this holiday season or maybe even somewhere in between, it’s your table. What’s important are the people you’re sitting around it with. 

 

Well, friends, I hope this post will help give you some guidance on how to set your table for the holidays this year. Which of these three styles do you gravitate to when setting your table? I often set mine as some version in between the three! Tell me how you like to set your table in a comment below!

Tablescape Photos: Shannon Ford Photography

November 4, 2019

« Cozy Christmas Design Inspiration & How-to Come up with Your Decorating Theme
Farmhouse Christmas Decor Finds at Walmart – 2019 »

YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE

  • Our Drive By Baby Shower / A Hosting Home BlogOur Drive By Baby Shower!
  • DIY Balloon Garland Tutorial / A Hosting Home BlogDIY Balloon Garland Tutorial (Updated)
  • How To Transition into Fall Decor / A Hosting Home BlogHow-To Transition into Fall Decor
  • Introducing #AHostingHome + Holiday Home Tour, Simple Modern Farmhouse Neutral Christmas DecorIntroducing #AHostingHome + A Peak at Our Neutral Christmas Decor

Comments

  1. candy says

    December 12, 2017 at 8:33 pm

    Friend and I were just talking about nobody knows how to set a proper table anymore, let alone know what everything is used for. Your diagrams are perfect.

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:50 pm

      Thank you, Candy! I’m so glad that you loved the post and found it useful! Setting the table is definitely not an art that is used much anymore and I wish it was!

      Reply
  2. Raina says

    December 13, 2017 at 6:04 am

    Oh I so needed this, I’m clueless when it comes to table settings! Great photos and I love those sketches too!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:51 pm

      Thanks, Raina! I hope this helped you out when planning your holiday meals with family. 🙂

      Reply
  3. Sharon Glascoe says

    December 13, 2017 at 3:15 pm

    Thank you for this post, excited to use it during the holidays. The GIF’s are great too!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:52 pm

      No problem, Sharon! I hope this helped you out for the holiday meals with family and friends. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Jenni LeBaron says

    December 13, 2017 at 5:26 pm

    This is wonderful! I wish more people set a formal table for special occasions.

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:52 pm

      Thank you, Jenni! I totally agree with you! 🙂

      Reply
  5. Shannon | Shannie Chic says

    December 14, 2017 at 1:23 am

    I love this! Setting a proper table has gone by the wayside and it is so sad!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:53 pm

      Thank you, Shannon – I totally agree! I think we need to bring back setting the table!

      Reply
  6. Rachel says

    December 14, 2017 at 3:44 am

    Thank you for this!! I needed to brush up on my formal place settings!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:53 pm

      No problem, Rachel! I hope this helps! 🙂

      Reply
  7. Jessica says

    December 14, 2017 at 2:32 pm

    I love this! I never really knew how to set the table the proper way, this is really helpful!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:53 pm

      Thank you, Jessica! I’m so glad that this was so helpful for you. 🙂

      Reply
  8. platforms and pacifiers - hanna says

    December 14, 2017 at 9:07 pm

    Saving this!! I’m always a “here is a stack of plates and the food make your own plate and sit down” kinda gal! But I would love to one day have a great dinner party with a lovely table scape!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:55 pm

      Hanna, I use to be the same way! (Frankly, I still do that sometimes!) But when I took the time one day to actually set the table, I fell in love with how darling it looked and felt. I have never been the same way again! 🙂

      Reply
  9. Belle says

    December 18, 2017 at 3:56 pm

    That setup is gorgeous!!! Such a very helpful and timely post!

    Belle | One Awesome Momma

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:55 pm

      Thank you, Belle! I am so glad that you enjoyed it and found it helpful! 🙂

      Reply
  10. Carissa Link says

    December 18, 2017 at 9:26 pm

    I realized after reading this that I am definitely far beyond classy when it comes to tableware! Haha, I had NO clue arrangements were so detailed, but that setup does look beautiful!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:57 pm

      Carissa, that’s totally okay! I feel like the art of setting a table has definitely not been used as much now. Being in the wedding industry is how I’ve picked up on it all. 🙂 Definitely set it however works best for you and your family!

      Reply
  11. AmberLynn says

    December 19, 2017 at 6:01 am

    I am the hostess with the mostess of my friends, and we definitely spend a lot of our time together at a table, eating. The drawn-out guide definitely helps with setting the table, especially in different settings.

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:58 pm

      AmberLynn, I think we may just be the same person. 😉 I’m so glad you found this helpful!

      Reply
  12. Kate says

    December 19, 2017 at 7:44 pm

    Wow such a helpful post! Totally pinning this for future(party!) reference!

    Reply
    • cathynugentweddings says

      January 8, 2018 at 4:58 pm

      Thank you, Kate! I’m so glad you loved it and found it helpful – make sure to save it for later! 🙂

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Atlanta based Award Winning Interior and Event Designer and Home Blogger Cathy Nugent

Hi, friends! I'm Cathy, a nationally published award winning designer of spaces to gather and southern belle writer based out of a small(ish) town outside of Atlanta, Georgia. However, most people know me as the Monica Geller of my friend group – a coffee connoisseur and dog mom with a huge heart for hosting and an eye for design. The heart behind what I do is simple. I want to help you be intentional on creating spaces to gather and celebrating life's precious moments - whether that be weddings, parties, or something as simple as having loved ones in your home. Living Simply, Loving Generously, and Hosting with Heart.

Follow A Hosting Home

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube

LOOKING FOR SOMETHING?

CATEGORIES

ARCHIVES

POPULAR POSTS

DIY Salt Dough Keepsake Ornaments / A Hosting Home Blog

DIY Salt Dough Keepsake Ornaments

December 15, 2020

Galentine's Day Essentials on Amazon Prime // A Hosting Home Blog

Galentine’s Day Essentials on AMAZON

February 6, 2020

A Peek at Last Year's Christmas Decor / A Hosting Home Blog

How-To Transition Your Christmas Decor into the Rest of Winter

January 15, 2020

Jumping into Winter Wellness with Simply Earth / Toxin Free Winter Wellness Essential Oil Recipes // A Hosting Home Blog

Jumping into Winter Wellness with Simply Earth Essential Oils

December 30, 2019

Red and White Christmas Tablescape + Table Setting Tips Video / A Hosting Home Blog

Cozy Red and White Christmas Tablescape + Table Setting Tips Video!

December 23, 2019


Today on Insta Stories I shared a couple of simple Today on Insta Stories I shared a couple of simple tips for decorating with faux floral stems in wall planters. 🪴 In case you missed it ➡️ 1. Stuff your planters with those extra plastic grocery bags. I showed y’all how great they held up the stems in place! Not to mention, it keeps you from having to completely fill each planter. 2. Make sure to bend the ends of your stems to the desired height rather than cut them so you can reuse them each year in a different way, whether that be in a wall planter this year and a large jug vase next year! They then become an investment and can actually save you money by you not having to purchase new stems each year. ✨ So what do y’all think — was that helpful? #ahostinghome 

Linked my floral stems as well as some of my dining room via @liketoknow.it ➡️ http://liketk.it/36wVm #liketkit @liketoknow.it.home #LTKSeasonal #LTKhome #StayHomeWithLTK
Introducing: baby jail! 👶🏼🍼 (well, a sliv Introducing: baby jail! 👶🏼🍼 (well, a sliver view of it.) Chaos ensued today from putting that thing together. I obviously didn’t read the dimensions because it’s large, in charge, and takes up a lot of room in our living room — which in turn caused me to rearrange all our furniture. 🤷🏼‍♀️😅 Not only did I get a great workout 🤪 but Willie also found a new perch to bark at the neighbors out the front door. But you know what? This is real life — and I LOVE this season of life that God has blessed me with. With two babies in heaven, I’ve prayed for this season for so long. ❤️ And while it’s not the most aesthetically pleasing thing on Instagram, I hope to inspire you with the real life of living where you love, in the season of life that you’re in. ✨❤️ #ahostinghome

// Shop my home via the @liketoknow.it app ➡️ http://liketk.it/36rIS #liketkit @liketoknow.it.home @liketoknow.it.family #LTKfamily #LTKbaby #LTKhome
I was going to wait for it to be completely done, I was going to wait for it to be completely done, but I can’t help myself! ✨ Tackled this china cabinet yesterday, and all I can say is WOW WHAT A TRANSFORMATION. (Swipe to see the before! ➡️) 😍👏🏼 This china cabinet belonged to my grandmother, and It’s been so fun getting to make it my own and make it apart of my home. I painted it with @behrpaint chalk paint in the color ‘Classic Noir’ and accented it with the most darling @wallpops wallpaper in the back. Now I just need to do the finishing touches by rub n’ buffing the hardware, and it’ll be done. 😍 I originally wanted to paint it white because I was nervous to paint it black— but now I’m SO glad I did! My motto for 2021: don’t be afraid to be bold with design! (It’s just paint! 😉) So tell me, what do y’all think?! #ahostinghome
Don’t mind me, just chilling in my comfy clothes Don’t mind me, just chilling in my comfy clothes and slippers admiring the work that I did today. Master bathroom paint is (pretty much) finished, and I’m already in love with how my vision for it is coming together. Rob keeps laughing because this all started with needing to fix our shower... yet I have to remind him that he knew what he got into when he married me. 😘 I can’t believe how much painting this little wall made our marble tile pop! Now I want to put this color everywhere in my house. 😍 P.S. Did you catch some paint project tips in my stories today? ✨#ahostinghome

// Paint Colors: @sherwinwilliams Pure White & Peppercorn mixed in @behrpaint from @homedepot
I feel like it’s officially that weird transitio I feel like it’s officially that weird transition time of year with my home decor, y’all! Too early for Spring, yet when I put Christmas decor away, I like to put it all away so I can have a fresh and clean slate for the new year. That means lots of greenery and fresh additions mixed with cozy textures to give it a clean and fresh feeling while I focus on projects and things around the house for the new year. How do y’all like to transition and decorate after Christmas? #ahostinghome

// You can shop this photo and the rest of my home via the @liketoknow.it app ➡️ http://liketk.it/35nCf #liketkit @liketoknow.it.home #StayHomeWithLTK #LTKhome
Hello, progress photo! My name is Cathy, and I lov Hello, progress photo! My name is Cathy, and I loveee to paint! ✨❤️ While I only get small slivers of time right now because I’m a mama to a sweet newborn, I’m making the most of it — and our master bathroom is slowly getting its much needed facelift. Our new shower door won’t get delivered until later this month, but I wasn’t going to let that stop me from getting my hands on the rest of the walls! I absolutely love this Pure White by @sherwinwilliams — it’s the same white I used when I redid our guest bathroom. It’s the perfect neutral white that is going to make this space look so much bigger and brighter! 😍 #ahostinghome
This entryway makeover was another one of my favor This entryway makeover was another one of my favorite DIY projects in 2020, inspired by @mindfullygray’s entry and @thejadebennett’s color vibes. It’s crazy how much of a difference paint and a wood board with hooks can make! ✨ It completely transformed this space and gave it so much functionality. (SWIPE ➡️ to see the before!) I see a lot more paint and DIYs in 2021 — and I CAN’T WAIT! 👏🏼 

// http://liketk.it/357Fi @liketoknow.it @liketoknow.it.home
Happy New Year, friends! ✨ As I mentioned on Ins Happy New Year, friends! ✨ As I mentioned on Insta Stories the other day, we ended 2020 with a leak in our master bathroom that is making us take out our builder grade shower insert and redo it (so 2020, right? 🤦🏼‍♀️) — so we’re starting out 2021 with a master bathroom makeover! ✨ Since we have to redo the shower, we decided to go ahead and makeover the rest of the bathroom too because it’s a space we really haven’t touched yet. I’ve been dying to get my hands on it, but I have always been too hesitant and unsure of what I wanted to do. Channeling my goal for 2021 of being bold and fearless in my DIY projects this year, we’re going for it! Here’s a peek at the design board I have working so far, and you can see the progress and behind the scenes on Instagram stories as we go. (I’ve started saving it all to a highlight on my profile too!) To say I can’t wait is a bit of an understatement. So tell me, what do you think of my vision so far?! #ahostinghome
Looking back through 2020, our guest bathroom make Looking back through 2020, our guest bathroom makeover was definitely one of my favorite projects we did this year! It was funky and bold and totally out of my comfort zone when it came to my decorating style, and I think that’s why I’m so obsessed with it! Is it weird to say that my guest bathroom inspires me everyday? ✨ This next year my goal is to be bold with my design choices and projects while being fearless in picking up a tool and trying something new — and I can’t wait to kick it off with our master bathroom makeover! ✨ What are your goals for the new year? #ahostinghome

// Paint Colors: Pure White by @sherwinwilliams ; Cascades by #sherwinwilliams ; Carbon by @behrpaint 

// http://liketk.it/34S89 #liketkit @liketoknow.it @liketoknow.it.home #LTKhome

CATEGORIES

  • Baby & Family
  • Coffee with Cathy
  • DIY
  • Fall
  • Home & Home Decor
  • Hosting
  • Recipes
  • Spring & Summer
  • Videos
  • Weddings
  • Winter

Follow A Hosting Home

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • YouTube
We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site, you agree to their use.OkRead more